ReConnect. ReMember. ReCreate.

Stark.  Gray.  Cold.  Inanimate.  Apathetic.

These are just a handful of words which describe the bleak environment inside the concrete walls of Fishkill Correctional Institute in New York, a space reserved for those in society whose behaviors have resulted in a loss of their personal freedom, and in some cases an irreversible sentence of a lifetime behind bars.  These particular individuals are the castaways, the unredeemable, the lost causes.  They are the uncompassionate, the unfeeling, the disconnected.  These are the men for whom society has given up all hope for, categorically labeling them as “impossible to rehabilitate.”

Thankfully, Glorida Gilbert Stoga, in collaboration with veterinarian Dr. Thomas Lane, did not believe these blanket generalizations to be true and moved into action by creating a revolutionary program called “Puppies Behind Bars,” providing these forsaken men an opportunity to experience what has been largely denied to them by society:  a second chance.

This organization places puppies with inmates in prison as part of a program to train these dogs to become guide dogs for returning injured service men and women, law enforcement officers who have been injured in the line of duty, and disabled children and adults.  The puppies spend 16 months with their assigned inmate, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, where they are trained and cared for until the day the dogs are presented to their new family.

As difficult as it is for these men to say goodbye to these beautiful animals with whom they have developed strong bonds and unique relationships, they have each said that the opportunity they were given to connect to a side of themselves they have forgotten they had the capacity to experience is immeasurable.   By engaging in a relationship whose intended purpose and outcome is to help someone else, these inmates are discovering that their lives are not about them – at least not in the way they had so far imagined it to be.  And through the path of service and compassion, giving back to a world that perhaps they have thus far only taken from, they have been given the greatest opportunity to remember and to experience who they really are.

If a man who has done the unthinkable — perhaps even someone who has taken the life of another human being — can remember how to love and how to feel compassion again through the tiny life of a puppy, don’t we ALL have the ability to begin again and to recreate ourselves anew in any given moment?

The other exciting aspect to this story is the fact that someone just like you, just like me, created this wonderful program simply from an idea, a thought.  And instead of burying it in a sea of doubts, fears, and apprehensions, she chose the action love sponsors and is changing the lives of thousands of people for the better by taking the first step.  I hope this story serves as an inspiration to you, as it did for me, to move into what’s next.  Life really does begin “at the edge of your comfort zone, as the messages of Conversations with God advise us.  If you already thought you would succeed, if you were already guaranteed to “win,” would you go for it?  Would you take the jump?

What then would you be allowed to know about who you really are and why you are really here?

Note:  The Conversations with God Foundation also sponsors a CwG Prison Outreach program in order to share the message of the Conversations with God books with people in jails and prisons, places of darkness where its light is most needed, empowering prisoners to spread the CwG message in their own facilities and to live this message so that they can effect change within their own sphere.  For more information about how you can be involved in this wonderful outreach, click here:

CwG Prison Outreach

(Lisa McCormack is the Managing Editor & Administrator of The Global Conversation. She is also a member of the Spiritual Helper team at www.ChangingChange.net, a website offering emotional and spiritual support. To connect with Lisa, please e-mail her at Lisa@TheGlobalConversation.com.)

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6 responses to “ReConnect. ReMember. ReCreate.”

  1. Margot De Jaegher Avatar

    Now that is an inspiring story.
    I am also for giving everyone a second chance. I truly believe not one person is a lost cause either. Everyone deserves a second chance. It doesn’t matter what they have done, as long as they know, truly know, they are not written off than there’s still hope for these people. I’m not saying it is the right thing to do killing other people, but then there’s a lot of judgement involved as to these curcomstances the events took place. I think the “justice” department is all about judgement anyway. It doesn’t “work” that way. This all in the sake of “keeping people safe”. I’m not buying it. There’s always, ALWAYS, a way of remembering these people Who They Really Are. Instead of locking them up, far away from society, we should all try to remember them, bring them back to themselves. Didn’t God say it to Neale too? Every crime being commited is a cry for help, a shout out for attention?

    1. Lisa McCormack Avatar

      “Every crime being commited is a cry for help, a shout out for attention?”

      Boy, if we could all adopt this point of view, and make our choices from within this framework of understanding, there would be a whole lot less judging and a whole lot more loving. Nicely expressed thoughts, Margot. Thank you for sharing them with us!

  2. Marko Avatar
    Marko

    I too have heard of the Puppies Behind Bars program & also, where inmates learn organic gardening. Really great stuff Lisa.

    I like to say that even child molesters, mass shooters, rapists, murders, animal abusers,
    pedophiles are blessed by the angels & need our love. Their abuse
    & pain is a extreme cry for help.

    They are highly exaggerated negative reflections, distortions of the
    divine, that free will allows in our current experience. However, we also, always have the free will choice to love them back to wholeness.

    Magical blessings,

    -Marko

    1. Lisa McCormack Avatar

      I appreciate your perspective and ability to see beyond the distortions, Marko. Perhaps that is what is missing, our ability as a society to see any further beyond what we “think” we are seeing, where the larger answers and understandings dwell.

  3. Terri Lynn Avatar

    A great story of what love can do. Perhaps these prisoners had no love when they were young. Perhaps they did the best they could given the circumstances they had. What a fantastic idea for the puppies judge not.
    We as humanity need to help each other and not condemn one another. After all these men are God, too. They deserve the help they need to live past what they have done.

    1. Lisa McCormack Avatar

      Given what is taking place in our world right now, it seems we would all be well-served to take your wise suggestion and move into a larger space of helping one another and coming from a place of compassion and understanding. Thank you, Terri, for being a part of that loving movement.

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